ape2 je la labu.............

Hi there, thanks because read my blog. Before that, i was write about myself. I hope you know me better than before. I will update all my article as soon as possible. In this article i will write about the topic that my lecture have give. This is about my friend. A friend that i know when we are in the same class. A friend that was quite preety and havve characteristic as the last malay women. Haha... but all my inspection all wrong. She have many opposite that i dont know before. If i know this wil happens i will never have a talk with her. She have changed my feeling towards her. On than night, i have ‘sms’ him to ask for a book. As a friend i was joking to her and insert “syg” into my ‘sms’. Firstly i did not know that she already have boyfriend. I put that word because i want to be friendly to her. Beside that many of my friend didn’t care about that word because they also ‘guni2’ in sabah words. Haha... to short the story, it was begin on that day. On that time i want to go to mosque to have a ‘solat jumaat’. On the journey i was check my phone if i have misscall. But only a ‘sms’ in my inbox. At the beginning i was shocked with the ‘sms’. I dont where is the mistake. She blame me because i already break his relationship with his boyfriend. There are many factor to make them break up. Not just only the ‘sms’ that i was sent to her. I really misunderstand with her attitude. Why should she blame me? I think she should investigate first before can blame somebody. Its was unlogical statement. Even crazy people dont make that kinds of statement. As a muslim, relationship before married are really forbidden. If you want to know some one better we exactly do “ta’aruf”. Engagement is a kind of “ta’aruf”. In that time if you think he/she are better than you can married he/she as soon as possible. In that ways we can avoid from making sins. From that situation she already make me in confiusion. I dont know what to make. If she think this is her mistake she should ask a forgiveness from me. Insyallah i will forgie her. If not you know yourself la... haha... actually i’m a hot – tempered person. But Islam already teach that we must be kind with our relatives. Should i forgive she because of that problem? Should i?